My friend, E is ditching us for this girl I hate, J. My friend T doesn't like her either, and my friend C is pretty neutral about it (which is kinda annoying). It's not like E doesn't like us anymore, it's just that she's spending more and more time with J, and it's really grating on our nerves. It's like J is trying to steal E away... the sad part is that it's working. J is ok with my other friends, but she had admitted herself that she doesn't like me for no reason, and the feeling is mutual. What I want to know is: Would it be too pushy to confront E about it, or should I just let it go? I don't want my BFF to distance from me!
Thank you for your time =]
xox
Nicki
My friend is diching us for a girl I hate... what do I do?
confront E. never let go of the ones you love cause you'll regret it. i once let go of my bf months ago and i regret it alot
Reply:Let her go! If she said that she doesn't like you for no reason then stopp being her friend. Some girls like "J" probably don't have friends at all and try to take friends away to get revenge on people. You might haven't done a single thing to her but maybe she envies you on the many friends you have. She might be jealous. If "J" sees that you are getting angry then she'll do it even more.
If you still want "E" back then tell her how you feel and if she doesn't show any concern then tell her that you don't want to be friends with her but that you'll still care about her. Just let"E" know that you still care about her. Or just let her be "J's" friend even if you don't like her. Okay? My friend,"C" she still hangs with this spoiled,mean,self-abosred, girl but I let her hang with that girl jsut to show "C" that I'm a good friend. And maybe,just maybe,try to be "J's" friend or talk to her to let her know that your not gettiing angry at her for what's she's doing.(She might respect you a little, you never know.)
Reply:tell her how you feel and maybe she will undertand .
Reply:tell her how you feel, if she is a real BFF she will understand.
Monday, May 24, 2010
I have a friend who likes this guy. Today I find out that another girl likes the same guy. Should I tell her?
There is this friend who we'll call N, she's a freshman. She likes this guy named P who is a Junior. N told me that she liked P. (I kinda like N...but thats not the point) Then my friend L(who is a senior, i'm also a senior) tells me that our friend C who is a sophmore, likes P. I was wondering shouldI tell N about C? Or just leave it?
I have a friend who likes this guy. Today I find out that another girl likes the same guy. Should I tell her?
Um...we all like people. There is always going to be somebody else that likes P or N. You aren't the only one to like N either.
So, if the reason is just to tell her to let her down, I wouldn't. It's not like she's dying to go out with him. She's a freshman-a harmless crush.
Now if you wanted to tell her because you wanted to get rid of P so you can have her, that is another story.
Reply:i guess your motives are the deciding factor here, if you want to tell her to perhaps prevent her from being hurt then your motives are good and you should tell her.
If your doing this so that you have a chance with her, do not it will simply backfire and if she finds out this was the reason im not too sure she would be flattered, im no expert with women not at all, but in my experience ive found honesty is a quality women adore, to be honest not just women i think all people admire honesty.
If its to get a chance with her dont tell her about this guy she likes instead mention that you like her unless you value her too much as a friend to lose her as such, or at least make it a bit uncomfortable, i guess the alternative is tell her this guy likes another girl and see what pans out with this guy then after that mention you like her .
Reply:dont get involved Just let things fall where they may
Reply:yea tell but be casual about it..if it comes up on the topic then be like ohh "C" likes him 2
Reply:yea tell her. Also dont use letters they get kinda confusing. Just use fake names if your worried they will see it.
I have a friend who likes this guy. Today I find out that another girl likes the same guy. Should I tell her?
Um...we all like people. There is always going to be somebody else that likes P or N. You aren't the only one to like N either.
So, if the reason is just to tell her to let her down, I wouldn't. It's not like she's dying to go out with him. She's a freshman-a harmless crush.
Now if you wanted to tell her because you wanted to get rid of P so you can have her, that is another story.
Reply:i guess your motives are the deciding factor here, if you want to tell her to perhaps prevent her from being hurt then your motives are good and you should tell her.
If your doing this so that you have a chance with her, do not it will simply backfire and if she finds out this was the reason im not too sure she would be flattered, im no expert with women not at all, but in my experience ive found honesty is a quality women adore, to be honest not just women i think all people admire honesty.
If its to get a chance with her dont tell her about this guy she likes instead mention that you like her unless you value her too much as a friend to lose her as such, or at least make it a bit uncomfortable, i guess the alternative is tell her this guy likes another girl and see what pans out with this guy then after that mention you like her .
Reply:dont get involved Just let things fall where they may
Reply:yea tell but be casual about it..if it comes up on the topic then be like ohh "C" likes him 2
Reply:yea tell her. Also dont use letters they get kinda confusing. Just use fake names if your worried they will see it.
Am I wrong to give an ultimatum to my boyfriend about his pothead friend?
I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and living together the last 2 years. He had a serious drug addiction to meth and pot, and went to residential treatment for a little over 6 months- Feb. '07 to Sep. '07 and came home. The problem is we have a guy friend "C" who is a really good guy, but a SERIOUS pothead and smokes weed all the time. While my bf was in rehab, my bf even said that he doesn't think he can be friends or hang out with "C" anymore. When my bf got back from rehab, a month later I allowed him to hang out with "C" at C's house almost every weekend. I don't know if my bf is lying or not, but he said that while "C" would smoke weed, he would go outside and have a cigarette. I trusted my bf in hoping he won't get addictive cravings and start weed again, and I trusted our friend "C" to watch out for him. Last Sunday, I caught my bf in C's truck, and it was all smoky inside. My bf claims he didn't smoke weed and was just talking. I told him I would buy a drug test from
Am I wrong to give an ultimatum to my boyfriend about his pothead friend?
I didnt even need to read all of this. My husband is a recovering addict and I can tell you this.
You can tell him that you are worried about this friend. You would prefer for him to not hang out with him BUT you need to decide that YOU will not put up with it. dont leave it to him to decide how you are going to spend your life, with him in it or not. Dont give him the power to decide your future.
Reply:No you're wrong in staying with this fool. Dump him and move on and get a man without all this drama.
Reply:if your friend is back on weed it wont take long to find out there are signs to look for eye drops for red spaced out eyes ,forgetfulness,rolling papers in his pockets ,keep yor eyes are open ...its true second hand smoke can turn out positive in a drug test .is he on prescription drugs cause serious pot users generally need prescription pill to help kick the habit in the long term will power is not always enough ..
Reply:You have every absolute right to let him know about the future of the relationship. He was given a chance to change and he screwed up and went back to his old habits. If you stay with him you may not have a future. I suggest that you tell him how you feel about this and if he does not yield, then you have no choice but to leave him. However, in the case that he pleads for you not to leave, that's when you "smack" him with the Ultimatum.
Reply:Guys usually have a problem putting a woman before their good friends, so lay off a little bit. He might think you nag him too much and dump you
Reply:No you're probably not wrong. Pot in itself isn't so bad, but if you are a recovering Meth addict, then anything is bad. Oh and yes, of course he was smoking weed with "C". I can't imagine a person who would want to date anyone who was addicted to meth, but maybe that's me. You should break up with him and find a real man. But it's okay to be his friend and try to get him to help himself.
Reply:Abstinence is absolute. He should have learned that in rehab place. Is like AA, they do not say, is ok if you do not drink anymore, is ok to take those pills and is ok to smoke that rope, nope, it does not work that way, is in all the literature that he has from the rehab place.
Tell him to man up, tell his buddy to man up also. Don't do junk that is illegal or harmful to the recovery in the presence of an addict.
Once an addict, always an addict, that is the common understanding of addictive personalities. Some can conquer the substances or drugs of choice , others do not have that ability.
Did boyfriend go in treatment cause he chose to, or was it court ordered,. That is a point that I am iffy on, if it was court ordered, then he never actually made the choice to get off the junk.
But anyhoots, to make it work, one has to work at it, daily,hourly and so on.
Reply:Sorry, weed isn't physically addictive, so...as long as "C" doesn't do meth, I wouldn't worry too much. They say weed is a gateway drug, so I guess if your boyfriend has that addictive of a personality, you may want to keep him from it so he doesn't transition to meth again. But, you don't hear about people ruining their lives because of weed alone. Oh, and he already smokes cigarettes...so it's not like that's healthy. And he's lying, he's already smoking weed again.
Reply:Dump he is a pothead drugie , you can do better you need some who will look out for you as much a you lookout for them. It is not going to get better. Kick him out,change the locks. Get rid of all those losers. It is really hard to met some
the older you get, so don't waste your time get, so get rid of him and start over with someone who has other interests besides drugs and is not going to treat you like a mom.
Reply:Unfortunately you cannot control your BF life. If he says he isnt smoking it then you need to trust him. You are gonna drive him away by acting like his mother. Weed is not that bad and I know tons of successful people who do jobs that are prestigious in the community who smoke daily. You would be surprised. As for the meth, that is what you should be worrying about and if his friend C isnt a tweeker than he should be fine. And even if your BF slips up and wants to get stoned, who cares. Tell him you understand how hard overcoming addiction can be and not everybody gets it right the first time. You have to take it step by step.
Am I wrong to give an ultimatum to my boyfriend about his pothead friend?
I didnt even need to read all of this. My husband is a recovering addict and I can tell you this.
You can tell him that you are worried about this friend. You would prefer for him to not hang out with him BUT you need to decide that YOU will not put up with it. dont leave it to him to decide how you are going to spend your life, with him in it or not. Dont give him the power to decide your future.
Reply:No you're wrong in staying with this fool. Dump him and move on and get a man without all this drama.
Reply:if your friend is back on weed it wont take long to find out there are signs to look for eye drops for red spaced out eyes ,forgetfulness,rolling papers in his pockets ,keep yor eyes are open ...its true second hand smoke can turn out positive in a drug test .is he on prescription drugs cause serious pot users generally need prescription pill to help kick the habit in the long term will power is not always enough ..
Reply:You have every absolute right to let him know about the future of the relationship. He was given a chance to change and he screwed up and went back to his old habits. If you stay with him you may not have a future. I suggest that you tell him how you feel about this and if he does not yield, then you have no choice but to leave him. However, in the case that he pleads for you not to leave, that's when you "smack" him with the Ultimatum.
Reply:Guys usually have a problem putting a woman before their good friends, so lay off a little bit. He might think you nag him too much and dump you
Reply:No you're probably not wrong. Pot in itself isn't so bad, but if you are a recovering Meth addict, then anything is bad. Oh and yes, of course he was smoking weed with "C". I can't imagine a person who would want to date anyone who was addicted to meth, but maybe that's me. You should break up with him and find a real man. But it's okay to be his friend and try to get him to help himself.
Reply:Abstinence is absolute. He should have learned that in rehab place. Is like AA, they do not say, is ok if you do not drink anymore, is ok to take those pills and is ok to smoke that rope, nope, it does not work that way, is in all the literature that he has from the rehab place.
Tell him to man up, tell his buddy to man up also. Don't do junk that is illegal or harmful to the recovery in the presence of an addict.
Once an addict, always an addict, that is the common understanding of addictive personalities. Some can conquer the substances or drugs of choice , others do not have that ability.
Did boyfriend go in treatment cause he chose to, or was it court ordered,. That is a point that I am iffy on, if it was court ordered, then he never actually made the choice to get off the junk.
But anyhoots, to make it work, one has to work at it, daily,hourly and so on.
Reply:Sorry, weed isn't physically addictive, so...as long as "C" doesn't do meth, I wouldn't worry too much. They say weed is a gateway drug, so I guess if your boyfriend has that addictive of a personality, you may want to keep him from it so he doesn't transition to meth again. But, you don't hear about people ruining their lives because of weed alone. Oh, and he already smokes cigarettes...so it's not like that's healthy. And he's lying, he's already smoking weed again.
Reply:Dump he is a pothead drugie , you can do better you need some who will look out for you as much a you lookout for them. It is not going to get better. Kick him out,change the locks. Get rid of all those losers. It is really hard to met some
the older you get, so don't waste your time get, so get rid of him and start over with someone who has other interests besides drugs and is not going to treat you like a mom.
Reply:Unfortunately you cannot control your BF life. If he says he isnt smoking it then you need to trust him. You are gonna drive him away by acting like his mother. Weed is not that bad and I know tons of successful people who do jobs that are prestigious in the community who smoke daily. You would be surprised. As for the meth, that is what you should be worrying about and if his friend C isnt a tweeker than he should be fine. And even if your BF slips up and wants to get stoned, who cares. Tell him you understand how hard overcoming addiction can be and not everybody gets it right the first time. You have to take it step by step.
Friend Problem.?
this girl and i have been friend for years. During our friendship we've gotten into fights. they've always been over the internet and shes always said horrible things. i dont thinks i've done anything wrong to deserve this. Recently she and another friend decided to joke around an call me a lesbian. which led into another fight. she told my bff that shes always hated me and she even planed to beat me up. A couple days ago she started talking to me again. i just went along. i am really confsed as to why shes talking to me again. i can never forgive her and the only reasons shes talking to me are:
A. she thinks shes done nothing wrong.
B.shes doing it as a joke, to pretend to be my friend.
C. shes bored of her other friends.
Im just confused.
Friend Problem.?
Sounds to me like she dont know that she can have more than one friend and that you dont have to put down your other friends to make you look cool around the others, I would although if I was you watch my back because she sounds like a very unstable person who could turn on you in an instant, if she is already telling people she is "planning to beat you up" dont let your gaurd down so she can!
Good luck hon,
Reply:listen this is just a mismatch
she's just trying to make fun of you got it!!
while putting you down she's enjoin it
so just leave her and find the one for u
I've had the same experience you know
so by doing this you touch her feelings
she'll then feel sorry for what you've done
Reply:I know I don't have the 100% story, but it seems to me that this girl shouldn't be your friend. If she makes you so miserable on a regular basis, she isn't worth it. Try to talk to her, in person, about how you are feeling, if she pulls more crap like this than don't be her friend anymore.
Best of luck!
-Kelli
Reply:Don't be confused.
It's clear that she doesn't deserve you. And definitely she's not your friend. Close the loop with her and say bye. You don't need such mess in your life. Focus on what's important in your and make sure you are happy. Let her go and wish her all the best with whatever she's doing.
Reply:Tell her how you feel. Make her understand you without her wandering off. If she doesn't listen, keep telling her until you get it into her mind.
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A. she thinks shes done nothing wrong.
B.shes doing it as a joke, to pretend to be my friend.
C. shes bored of her other friends.
Im just confused.
Friend Problem.?
Sounds to me like she dont know that she can have more than one friend and that you dont have to put down your other friends to make you look cool around the others, I would although if I was you watch my back because she sounds like a very unstable person who could turn on you in an instant, if she is already telling people she is "planning to beat you up" dont let your gaurd down so she can!
Good luck hon,
Reply:listen this is just a mismatch
she's just trying to make fun of you got it!!
while putting you down she's enjoin it
so just leave her and find the one for u
I've had the same experience you know
so by doing this you touch her feelings
she'll then feel sorry for what you've done
Reply:I know I don't have the 100% story, but it seems to me that this girl shouldn't be your friend. If she makes you so miserable on a regular basis, she isn't worth it. Try to talk to her, in person, about how you are feeling, if she pulls more crap like this than don't be her friend anymore.
Best of luck!
-Kelli
Reply:Don't be confused.
It's clear that she doesn't deserve you. And definitely she's not your friend. Close the loop with her and say bye. You don't need such mess in your life. Focus on what's important in your and make sure you are happy. Let her go and wish her all the best with whatever she's doing.
Reply:Tell her how you feel. Make her understand you without her wandering off. If she doesn't listen, keep telling her until you get it into her mind.
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Am I wrong to give an ultimatum to my boyfriend about his pothead friend?
I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and living together the last 2 years. He had a serious drug addiction to meth and pot, and went to residential treatment for a little over 6 months- Feb. '07 to Sep. '07 and came home. The problem is we have a guy friend "C" who is a really good guy, but a SERIOUS pothead and smokes weed all the time. While my bf was in rehab, my bf even said that he doesn't think he can be friends or hang out with "C" anymore. When my bf got back from rehab, a month later I allowed him to hang out with "C" at C's house almost every weekend. I don't know if my bf is lying or not, but he said that while "C" would smoke weed, he would go outside and have a cigarette. I trusted my bf in hoping he won't get addictive cravings and start weed again, and I trusted our friend "C" to watch out for him. Last Sunday, I caught my bf in C's truck, and it was all smoky inside. My bf claims he didn't smoke weed and was just talking. I told him I would buy a drug test from
Am I wrong to give an ultimatum to my boyfriend about his pothead friend?
It sounds like your boyfriend isn't worth it if he's going to lie to you! And no, your not being a parent, or being overcontrolling, you're just caring about their health! They both sound like jerks, no offense. Tell him to try to stop, and if he doesn't, tell him it's over. You seem to be the mature one in this situation.
Reply:he wont change for you... sorry to say. you shold leave so he can spend time with what he really loves... his weed.
I know how you feel i left a girl because she woudnt quit the weed...
Reply:first of all, you can still pass a drug test if you were in the car "just talking". thats hilarious. second, if i were you, i would be more concerned about the meth than the weed. weed isnt hard to get over, meth is the devils candy.
Reply:Having anything to do with drugs, or with anyone who does, is adequate grounds for dumping.
Reply:I don't think this kind of relationship is healthy for you. While I think it is very nice of you to care so much, I do think you need to back away. Let him realize that not only has his habits caused him trouble with the law, but it has pushed you away. Don't give up an him though. Tell him that you will help him as best you can as a friend. But that you can't be with someone you can't trust to be there for you, when he can't even help himself. Let him know that if he gets his act together you two may have a shot at being more then friends again.
Reply:its just weed get over it that aint no drug nor an addiction
Am I wrong to give an ultimatum to my boyfriend about his pothead friend?
It sounds like your boyfriend isn't worth it if he's going to lie to you! And no, your not being a parent, or being overcontrolling, you're just caring about their health! They both sound like jerks, no offense. Tell him to try to stop, and if he doesn't, tell him it's over. You seem to be the mature one in this situation.
Reply:he wont change for you... sorry to say. you shold leave so he can spend time with what he really loves... his weed.
I know how you feel i left a girl because she woudnt quit the weed...
Reply:first of all, you can still pass a drug test if you were in the car "just talking". thats hilarious. second, if i were you, i would be more concerned about the meth than the weed. weed isnt hard to get over, meth is the devils candy.
Reply:Having anything to do with drugs, or with anyone who does, is adequate grounds for dumping.
Reply:I don't think this kind of relationship is healthy for you. While I think it is very nice of you to care so much, I do think you need to back away. Let him realize that not only has his habits caused him trouble with the law, but it has pushed you away. Don't give up an him though. Tell him that you will help him as best you can as a friend. But that you can't be with someone you can't trust to be there for you, when he can't even help himself. Let him know that if he gets his act together you two may have a shot at being more then friends again.
Reply:its just weed get over it that aint no drug nor an addiction
This is about loyalty to friendship. Help me. I have a 2 friends who have been my friend for about 10 yrs?
one of them friend A is very jealous cause friend B is always spending time with me and hanging out with me cause we are more alike and we talk to each other almost everyday. friend A has discouraged friend B cause she thinks i tell it like it is very honest and open but friend B loves my honesty and has no problem. Except that this Friend B came on to my husband and i did not like it so we stopped ebing friends but she aplogized and I realize that friend B gets that way only when she is drunk. so we have been trying to work it out. Now friend B is running to friend A and friend A is telling her things like..if you don;t like the way Friend c is then don't be her friend..now don't u thinks she;s doing it cause she is trying to sever our friendship? I actually enjoy being with friend B she';s fun and yes she hurt me ..but i know we can work things out...she knows what she did was wrong..but recently friend A is hanging around with friend B a lot more .wat do u think%26gt;
This is about loyalty to friendship. Help me. I have a 2 friends who have been my friend for about 10 yrs?
You need to get new friends. I had a friend like your frend B for a long long time, not only did she come on to my husband, but every darn boyfriend I ever had. She was drunk too, but after a while, no excuse....dump her, trust me it won't change....it won't. Figure our how much the others mean to you, I ended up kind of dumping all of them, it is sad but too much drama and the drunk cheater has them all wrapped around her little finger. good luck.
Reply:This was very confusing to read. And it sounds very childish.
You are all friends. It shouldn't matter who spends more time with whom. You should plan time for the three of you to be together. Show Friend A that it's not a battle or choosing favorites.
Reply:Move on and find friend D E F and kick A and B to the curb... gaming playing is not what you want in a healthy relationship... this crap will never stop betweent the two of them... let them have each other and ler them know it... I hate two facedd people... I want honesty and true loyalty when it come to my best buds... hold higher standards whe it comes to the people in you life... this all comes from experience... believe me...
This is about loyalty to friendship. Help me. I have a 2 friends who have been my friend for about 10 yrs?
You need to get new friends. I had a friend like your frend B for a long long time, not only did she come on to my husband, but every darn boyfriend I ever had. She was drunk too, but after a while, no excuse....dump her, trust me it won't change....it won't. Figure our how much the others mean to you, I ended up kind of dumping all of them, it is sad but too much drama and the drunk cheater has them all wrapped around her little finger. good luck.
Reply:This was very confusing to read. And it sounds very childish.
You are all friends. It shouldn't matter who spends more time with whom. You should plan time for the three of you to be together. Show Friend A that it's not a battle or choosing favorites.
Reply:Move on and find friend D E F and kick A and B to the curb... gaming playing is not what you want in a healthy relationship... this crap will never stop betweent the two of them... let them have each other and ler them know it... I hate two facedd people... I want honesty and true loyalty when it come to my best buds... hold higher standards whe it comes to the people in you life... this all comes from experience... believe me...
Which friend should i invite to lock-in at my church?
Which friend should i invite to lock-in at my church?
friend A- if i went with her i would have a good time. But i kinda dont wanna go with her because well i just don't for a reason. her parents would definiately let her go.
friend B- If i invited her i would have an ok time. she definitely makes me laugh but i kinda dont wanna go with her either. umm , i think her parents would let her go
friend C- if i went with her i would have a good time. it may be kind of awkward at some points but i think it would go ok. i dont know her parents at all. not so sure they would let her go
Friend D- i would have a good time with her. she always makes me laugh.. but she might try and pull some pranks and i dont want to be embarassed at my church.. her parents would probably let her go but i dont know them
E- i would have an ok time with her. her parents would let her go
F- If i invited her i would have a good time. Her parents would let her go. we would have fun. it wud be ok.
Which friend should i invite to lock-in at my church?
You know what they LAST is BEST!
Go with F sounds like the one you already chose.
Reply:Friend F- If i invited her i would have a good time. Her parents would let her go. we would have fun. it wud be ok.
First you say you'll have a good time, then you say you'll have fun, and then you say "it would be ok????"
I say Friend F even though I'm confused.
Reply:Invite Friend F. If she can't go, invite A, B, or E. You want to have a good time, but you don't want things to be awkward for any reasons, and you don't want someone pulling pranks at your church. If you can invite them all, or more than one, that would be a lot of fun. Lock-ins are always fun with more people! Whoever you invite, I hope you have fun!
Reply:friend F- sounds like the best choice
Reply:what is "lock-in at my church"?
friend A- if i went with her i would have a good time. But i kinda dont wanna go with her because well i just don't for a reason. her parents would definiately let her go.
friend B- If i invited her i would have an ok time. she definitely makes me laugh but i kinda dont wanna go with her either. umm , i think her parents would let her go
friend C- if i went with her i would have a good time. it may be kind of awkward at some points but i think it would go ok. i dont know her parents at all. not so sure they would let her go
Friend D- i would have a good time with her. she always makes me laugh.. but she might try and pull some pranks and i dont want to be embarassed at my church.. her parents would probably let her go but i dont know them
E- i would have an ok time with her. her parents would let her go
F- If i invited her i would have a good time. Her parents would let her go. we would have fun. it wud be ok.
Which friend should i invite to lock-in at my church?
You know what they LAST is BEST!
Go with F sounds like the one you already chose.
Reply:Friend F- If i invited her i would have a good time. Her parents would let her go. we would have fun. it wud be ok.
First you say you'll have a good time, then you say you'll have fun, and then you say "it would be ok????"
I say Friend F even though I'm confused.
Reply:Invite Friend F. If she can't go, invite A, B, or E. You want to have a good time, but you don't want things to be awkward for any reasons, and you don't want someone pulling pranks at your church. If you can invite them all, or more than one, that would be a lot of fun. Lock-ins are always fun with more people! Whoever you invite, I hope you have fun!
Reply:friend F- sounds like the best choice
Reply:what is "lock-in at my church"?
Do guys mind if their girlfriend have intimate relationship with another friend before?
This guy B and me had a complex relationship. He likes me but he cant commit to this relationship yet. So we never let any of friends know about it. We quarrel over this usual relationship many times and eventually I decide to end it and ignore him. He immediately ask me out to talk when he realise that I'm ignoring him. At this stage he still cant promise me anything so I continue ignoring him. After a few months one of his friend C starts to date me and we got together but I never told him about my previous relationship with B. But 1 day C initiate to break up with me. Later on I found out he left me for another girl. Few days after the break up, B call me for a talk after learning I was together with C through another friend. He did not know I just break up with C then. During the talk I told him about wat happen between me and C. Then he tell me how sad he was when he heard about me together with C thats y he call for a talk. Now the new problem between me and B is C.
Do guys mind if their girlfriend have intimate relationship with another friend before?
forget about wats gone. have afresh start. Gud Luck
Reply:B should scram
Reply:To me this sounds like a classic case of "he doesn't want you, but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either." My advice is to leave this guy alone, date who you want, and stop agreeing to meet with him for "talks". He is going to give you the guilt trip and more empty promises every time he hears about you seeing someone else. Good luck and I hope you find happiness with a great guy who truly deserves you and wants a healthy relationship.
Reply:What's happened, happened. That should'nt matter. It all depends on how legit you feel at the moment. You can go around doing anything you want, but at the end, if you're loyal, guys shouldn't care.
Reply:B should get a divorce.
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Do guys mind if their girlfriend have intimate relationship with another friend before?
forget about wats gone. have afresh start. Gud Luck
Reply:B should scram
Reply:To me this sounds like a classic case of "he doesn't want you, but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either." My advice is to leave this guy alone, date who you want, and stop agreeing to meet with him for "talks". He is going to give you the guilt trip and more empty promises every time he hears about you seeing someone else. Good luck and I hope you find happiness with a great guy who truly deserves you and wants a healthy relationship.
Reply:What's happened, happened. That should'nt matter. It all depends on how legit you feel at the moment. You can go around doing anything you want, but at the end, if you're loyal, guys shouldn't care.
Reply:B should get a divorce.
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Who is "the backbone of a student"?a)self,b)parents,c)fr...
justice u'r answer with some ideas.
Who is "the backbone of a student"?a)self,b)parents,c)fr...
when you say backbone i relate that to the support system ...i would say parents are the backbone and self is body as a whole ... parents provide us with the support mentally financially emotionally and even physically ... but unless we ourself want to go out and acheive something we will not ... for eg - people who r lazy and just sit in the couch whole day watching tv does not necessarily have weak or no backbone ... its their choice to waste their life .. at the same time anytime they decide to stand up and do something they can do that .... the same goes with our support system ie our parents ...
Reply:Obviously,parents because u are their student first.
Reply:Guru / Teacher with expert skills and vision
Reply:the answer lies between all the three if parents are supportive,encouraging then only u can do the work perfectly but your efforts also takes equal importance if parents are not supportive your friends may give u support but u should make effort so self plays a vital role
Reply:Self. Students with great parents can do poorly, and students with horrible parents can excel. Students with tons of great friends can also end up doing poorly, while students without any friends do well. Why? - Because of what is going on within themselves. The only constant in all these situations is the student/"self."
Reply:as a student has his own intention in development, then only he can improve...so i think self is the backbone of the student.....if he himself dont want to develop,then parents or friends cant do anything...so,along with his own ideas, he has to develop with the suggestions of parents or friends or teachers....
Reply:as u said a 'backbone', consider first of all urself, then your parents, ur teachers, school, classmates ,all like the dics of a backbone - all seperate yet linked together to form a firm and strong backbone.
Reply:The backbone for learning is inquisity.
Inquisity is provided by self.
Parents only guide, so do teachers, books etc.
Therefore inquisity embedded in the character of self is the real backbone for a student.
Reply:class room chairs
Reply:self
Reply:i think for a student his parents and teachers are his backbone because due to their guidance and support a student is able to do a better job. but sometimes he himself is the backbone because in last he has to study and not his parents or teachers.
Reply:the teacher , to be more specific - the childs first teacher. a parent can instill morals, common sense, the discipline, "manners to listen" but the childs first teacher is the only one who can instill in him the yearning to learn, the tools to learn. only a good first teacher can and prepare him , give him the tools and open up the doors to the paths of every bit of knowledge. a good teacher sends that child on a life long quest to find the answers , to ask the questions. having children that have had both good and bad first teachers i have seen for myself the difference in the childs attitude towards the aquisition of knowledge.
Reply:self. No matterhow much someone motivates the student, he can only do well IF HE WANTS to. Also , i have friends who without any motivation have done it on their own.
Reply:Self of course.
There a A LOT of students who are orphans who do just fine.
Reply:The GURU , the teacher , the professor ,
He is the parent , he is the god ,
He is the way and he is source
He is the force and he gives the power
He makes the student stand upright
He harmonises his brain and steps
Reply:I'd say friends.Sometimes you confide more in a friend than in a parent because they're usually your age or anyway teenagers and they have problems too,they understand you better.Parents are older ,they don't shear the same ideas like teenagers,they don't go trough the same problems and they think that they always know what's best for you...I have some wonderful friends and it's great to know that I'll always have on who to lean over.
Reply:there four backbones.
first mother,second father,third guru,and Fourth god.
Reply:financial %26amp; emotional support - parents,
emotional %26amp; educational support -friends,
self confidence %26amp; interest -self.
Who is "the backbone of a student"?a)self,b)parents,c)fr...
when you say backbone i relate that to the support system ...i would say parents are the backbone and self is body as a whole ... parents provide us with the support mentally financially emotionally and even physically ... but unless we ourself want to go out and acheive something we will not ... for eg - people who r lazy and just sit in the couch whole day watching tv does not necessarily have weak or no backbone ... its their choice to waste their life .. at the same time anytime they decide to stand up and do something they can do that .... the same goes with our support system ie our parents ...
Reply:Obviously,parents because u are their student first.
Reply:Guru / Teacher with expert skills and vision
Reply:the answer lies between all the three if parents are supportive,encouraging then only u can do the work perfectly but your efforts also takes equal importance if parents are not supportive your friends may give u support but u should make effort so self plays a vital role
Reply:Self. Students with great parents can do poorly, and students with horrible parents can excel. Students with tons of great friends can also end up doing poorly, while students without any friends do well. Why? - Because of what is going on within themselves. The only constant in all these situations is the student/"self."
Reply:as a student has his own intention in development, then only he can improve...so i think self is the backbone of the student.....if he himself dont want to develop,then parents or friends cant do anything...so,along with his own ideas, he has to develop with the suggestions of parents or friends or teachers....
Reply:as u said a 'backbone', consider first of all urself, then your parents, ur teachers, school, classmates ,all like the dics of a backbone - all seperate yet linked together to form a firm and strong backbone.
Reply:The backbone for learning is inquisity.
Inquisity is provided by self.
Parents only guide, so do teachers, books etc.
Therefore inquisity embedded in the character of self is the real backbone for a student.
Reply:class room chairs
Reply:self
Reply:i think for a student his parents and teachers are his backbone because due to their guidance and support a student is able to do a better job. but sometimes he himself is the backbone because in last he has to study and not his parents or teachers.
Reply:the teacher , to be more specific - the childs first teacher. a parent can instill morals, common sense, the discipline, "manners to listen" but the childs first teacher is the only one who can instill in him the yearning to learn, the tools to learn. only a good first teacher can and prepare him , give him the tools and open up the doors to the paths of every bit of knowledge. a good teacher sends that child on a life long quest to find the answers , to ask the questions. having children that have had both good and bad first teachers i have seen for myself the difference in the childs attitude towards the aquisition of knowledge.
Reply:self. No matterhow much someone motivates the student, he can only do well IF HE WANTS to. Also , i have friends who without any motivation have done it on their own.
Reply:Self of course.
There a A LOT of students who are orphans who do just fine.
Reply:The GURU , the teacher , the professor ,
He is the parent , he is the god ,
He is the way and he is source
He is the force and he gives the power
He makes the student stand upright
He harmonises his brain and steps
Reply:I'd say friends.Sometimes you confide more in a friend than in a parent because they're usually your age or anyway teenagers and they have problems too,they understand you better.Parents are older ,they don't shear the same ideas like teenagers,they don't go trough the same problems and they think that they always know what's best for you...I have some wonderful friends and it's great to know that I'll always have on who to lean over.
Reply:there four backbones.
first mother,second father,third guru,and Fourth god.
Reply:financial %26amp; emotional support - parents,
emotional %26amp; educational support -friends,
self confidence %26amp; interest -self.
Friend or boy?
idk wat to do i love this boy and my gurl is like ya im datin d. and my friend c. is all mad but we liked eachotha for abot 6 months and d. has mad feelings for me and i do too but we havent talked for a half month and my friend c. likes him now and i dont kno wat to do im not scared of her but she said shes goin to kick my as* becuz im dateing him and i new c. for like 5months
Friend or boy?
Good Luck %26amp; God bless you!
Reply:that was really confusing
Friend or boy?
Good Luck %26amp; God bless you!
Reply:that was really confusing
My friend has heard this guy likes her but isn't interested, how can she get him off her tail?
so my friend K told me that this guy likes our friend C. C isn't interested and wants to know how to make sure the guy knows she isn't interested before he tries to ask her out or something like that. she is good friends with him and doesn't want to ruin that but really isn't interested. what should she do to make sure that he realizes that it is going to have to stay just friends? she can't go out and say it because she isn't supposed to know he likes her.
My friend has heard this guy likes her but isn't interested, how can she get him off her tail?
C should let the "guy" know through the same route that she found out that he likes her. that will make it easiest on all parties!
My friend has heard this guy likes her but isn't interested, how can she get him off her tail?
C should let the "guy" know through the same route that she found out that he likes her. that will make it easiest on all parties!
MY friend is mad at me cuz im going out with her other friend likes?
OKay i have a friend Je. And her friend C. Likes My boyfriend Jo. And shes really mad at me and my best friend B. But i forgot when that C. liked JO. when he asked me out so i said yes and now were really happy, but i dont J. to be mad at me how do i stop her from being mad at me still??
MY friend is mad at me cuz im going out with her other friend likes?
I don't think the question is very clear enough. All I know is that your friend is mad at you because she likes your boyfriend. If that is the case. I can have some suggestions to you. Let me share a story of mine. I used to be at the situation of your girlfriend. My roommate knows I like the boy and she was trying to attract him. I was mad at her. But now when I look back, it was totally not worth it. My husband and I are the most happiest couple ever. She will get it over. And remember, it is not your fault that your boyfriend likes you and not her.
Reply:it depends if she still will talk to you but if she dosent u either dump the guy and take the freind or take the guy and dump the friend but think about this is it worth it losing a freindship over a guy?
Reply:well mabe is is not ur true friend and she is using u if u are happy with the guy then stay with him but just think would u take a guy over ur bff!!%26lt;3
**please someone give me a thums up and make me in level 2
radiata
MY friend is mad at me cuz im going out with her other friend likes?
I don't think the question is very clear enough. All I know is that your friend is mad at you because she likes your boyfriend. If that is the case. I can have some suggestions to you. Let me share a story of mine. I used to be at the situation of your girlfriend. My roommate knows I like the boy and she was trying to attract him. I was mad at her. But now when I look back, it was totally not worth it. My husband and I are the most happiest couple ever. She will get it over. And remember, it is not your fault that your boyfriend likes you and not her.
Reply:it depends if she still will talk to you but if she dosent u either dump the guy and take the freind or take the guy and dump the friend but think about this is it worth it losing a freindship over a guy?
Reply:well mabe is is not ur true friend and she is using u if u are happy with the guy then stay with him but just think would u take a guy over ur bff!!%26lt;3
**please someone give me a thums up and make me in level 2
radiata
My dumbass friend took things seriously and got a guy to hate me?
my friend E %26amp; i were pissed cause the popular guy A made our group of friends [4 ppl] loners as in no one sat with us at our lunch table. we got all the "uncool" ppl sitting at our table now %26amp; it sucks! so E %26amp; i told my other friend C to go smack A on the head. i was joking and saying it just to get my anger out but E was actually serious. C went up to A and smacked him on the head saying it was from my best friend J. A slapped J %26amp; she cried [lol] cause she didnt even know anything about it. so then C tells A i told him to although i was joking %26amp; didnt think he would actually take things seriously like a dumbass he is %26amp; i shouldve known. but E was actually serious..
so now A hates me and can make me soo much more miserable then i already am but technically its not my fault. i was joking %26amp; E was serious.. how should i explain myself so A will stop hating me ?
oh yeah, A was my ex and got me to be a loner cause i wanted to break up with him %26amp; we did break up.
My dumbass friend took things seriously and got a guy to hate me?
Well tell A the story behind the hit and hopes he understands and if he doesn't then so what if your not popular being yourself and being surrounded by friends that trully care about you and gotch ya back THAT makes you popular.
Reply:Get that ***** revenge.And go out with that guy so he wont be hating no more.IM NOT GAY.Trust me im not.
Reply:what the *****
thats retarted suck it up and stop being a goddamn puss-y ************ get in a fight beat the bit-ch up dont slack just punch her in the ******** face!
Reply:??????????????
so now A hates me and can make me soo much more miserable then i already am but technically its not my fault. i was joking %26amp; E was serious.. how should i explain myself so A will stop hating me ?
oh yeah, A was my ex and got me to be a loner cause i wanted to break up with him %26amp; we did break up.
My dumbass friend took things seriously and got a guy to hate me?
Well tell A the story behind the hit and hopes he understands and if he doesn't then so what if your not popular being yourself and being surrounded by friends that trully care about you and gotch ya back THAT makes you popular.
Reply:Get that ***** revenge.And go out with that guy so he wont be hating no more.IM NOT GAY.Trust me im not.
Reply:what the *****
thats retarted suck it up and stop being a goddamn puss-y ************ get in a fight beat the bit-ch up dont slack just punch her in the ******** face!
Reply:??????????????
How could we know that our friend lies to us?
I have a friend called A. She introduced me her friend who is called B. I've never met B before. We're a friend in messages and e-mails. Last November, he went to America. Then his friend, C, mailed me. I've also never met him before. We are friends. C like my best friend, D(they also never met before) . And B likes me.. (so confusing!!) The problem is.. there are no proves that they are exist!! I've checked B's IP address. And you know what?? He lives in Surabaya, Indonesia. Well, I actually live in Jakarta. Lots of crazy things happened in my life since I know them. Example, B was almost jump from his top of the house because of ME!! I even didn't hurt him, I like him! And also, C, was fighting against his unknown friends because they all like D. Me and D don't believe them!! The IP address is the prove that they aren't excist! But A, the one who introduced me, doesn't want to tell us the truth! Now, how could I now the truth? Because (NOW) they seems like they are excist.. hh
How could we know that our friend lies to us?
hm this is a very hard question...well ask them why are you doing this and see their face if they dont answer or didd not say the turth and show your feeling to them and if they still never tell you said to them that you dont want to talk to them... well this happen to me too i did that.. and sorry about this :( i dint mean to said this but good luck!
How could we know that our friend lies to us?
hm this is a very hard question...well ask them why are you doing this and see their face if they dont answer or didd not say the turth and show your feeling to them and if they still never tell you said to them that you dont want to talk to them... well this happen to me too i did that.. and sorry about this :( i dint mean to said this but good luck!
Should I tell my friend her ex still wants her?
My friend C thought her boyfriend D was doubting their relationship when she decided to forget him. Today I was told by another friend T that D sounded still very much in love with C. But T doesn't want to let C know what she found out because C already moved to another country. She thinks it is unnecessary to make C regret her decision. I disagree with T. I think C needs to know all the fact, who knows she will come back here. What do you think guys? Should C be told she misunderstood D?
Should I tell my friend her ex still wants her?
If their (non) relationship was based on such a lack of communication, then it would be more than dumb for someone to CHANGE COUNTRIES because someone told someone who thought someone sounded like someone was still sort of kinda interested in someone who had moved out of the country!!!
Breaking up is hard to do, and communication happens even then. These two did not seem to have much communications, where doubts, indirect hints, 3rd party communications, etc. are needed even to acknowledge continuing "interest". In my humble opinion, if the guy is really interested in her seriously, for a real and committed relationship, he should have no problem calling her (or going to her) in any country in the world (ok, maybe not North Korea) to fall on his knees and say, I LOVE YOU... not have a 4th party tell a 3rd party tell a 2nd party that the 1st party may be still interested.
Do you want to take responsibility for that girl's pain, suffering, life altering decision to change countries, come back and find out, nothing's changed?
Imran
Reply:I don't think you should tell her. If the boyfriend really loves her, he will have the guts to tell her himself. It will mean so much more coming from him anyways.
Reply:you should so totally tell her! if she knows the truth, she'll actually know what the problem was, and the huge mistake she made!
Reply:Yes, I think she shoudl know ---specially is the reason she moved was because of him or had something to do with him....even if she moved she might still have feelings for this guy.
I think that u as her friend should tell her--do u think she would tell you? would u like to know if you were her? b a good friend and do the right thing.
Reply:No you shouldnt tell her.Let her be happy.Its his fault for leading her on and making out to be that he didnt care about her like she thought. Its not fair to meddle in her life as it is she seems like shes happy and maybe there was more to the relationship then you know. Its personal .you should leave it that way.
Reply:No, M.Y.O.B.
Reply:Yes so maybe they get back together
Reply:up to you
Reply:yes coast the eye opener its a refreshing feeling
Reply:Yes but only if she isn't over him.
Should I tell my friend her ex still wants her?
If their (non) relationship was based on such a lack of communication, then it would be more than dumb for someone to CHANGE COUNTRIES because someone told someone who thought someone sounded like someone was still sort of kinda interested in someone who had moved out of the country!!!
Breaking up is hard to do, and communication happens even then. These two did not seem to have much communications, where doubts, indirect hints, 3rd party communications, etc. are needed even to acknowledge continuing "interest". In my humble opinion, if the guy is really interested in her seriously, for a real and committed relationship, he should have no problem calling her (or going to her) in any country in the world (ok, maybe not North Korea) to fall on his knees and say, I LOVE YOU... not have a 4th party tell a 3rd party tell a 2nd party that the 1st party may be still interested.
Do you want to take responsibility for that girl's pain, suffering, life altering decision to change countries, come back and find out, nothing's changed?
Imran
Reply:I don't think you should tell her. If the boyfriend really loves her, he will have the guts to tell her himself. It will mean so much more coming from him anyways.
Reply:you should so totally tell her! if she knows the truth, she'll actually know what the problem was, and the huge mistake she made!
Reply:Yes, I think she shoudl know ---specially is the reason she moved was because of him or had something to do with him....even if she moved she might still have feelings for this guy.
I think that u as her friend should tell her--do u think she would tell you? would u like to know if you were her? b a good friend and do the right thing.
Reply:No you shouldnt tell her.Let her be happy.Its his fault for leading her on and making out to be that he didnt care about her like she thought. Its not fair to meddle in her life as it is she seems like shes happy and maybe there was more to the relationship then you know. Its personal .you should leave it that way.
Reply:No, M.Y.O.B.
Reply:Yes so maybe they get back together
Reply:up to you
Reply:yes coast the eye opener its a refreshing feeling
Reply:Yes but only if she isn't over him.
Whom do u love most? (a) Parents (b) Girlfriend (c) Friends .......?
%26amp; plz give reason supporting ur answer.
And choose only one option.... plz don't be diplomatic....
Whom do u love most? (a) Parents (b) Girlfriend (c) Friends .......?
We love all of those, but we love each one of them in a different way.
Reply:My husband. He's always there for me. He never looks down on me. He truly is my best friend. He gives me purpose and someone to care for.
Reply:(not to be annoying but..) Why is God not on that list?
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And choose only one option.... plz don't be diplomatic....
Whom do u love most? (a) Parents (b) Girlfriend (c) Friends .......?
We love all of those, but we love each one of them in a different way.
Reply:My husband. He's always there for me. He never looks down on me. He truly is my best friend. He gives me purpose and someone to care for.
Reply:(not to be annoying but..) Why is God not on that list?
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Friend Issues?
So, I've just started playing on a sports team, along with four of my close friends. Yesterday, one of my best friends(let's call her A) told me after practice that another one of our friends(B) had told A that she hated being partnered up with friend C because she was 'bad' at playing. B isn't that good either, and I don't think anybody at this point is. I want to confront her and ask her why she would say such a thing, but I don't want to seem like the gossipy-nosey one. What should I do? I feel really bad for friend C. Hope this isn't too confusing.
Friend Issues?
ask friend b why she would say something to friend c. If all of you guys are close friends, she shouldnt be saying anything about friend c. It shouldnt matter if your good at a game or not. You should ask your friend if she would rather be with a good player that she hated or that hated her, or would she rather be with a really close friend and have her not be so good. I would rather pick the be with a close friend thats not very good. Hope I helped :)
Reply:you schold worry about it are guys firends so dose matter what c beause wa a bad player not very one does in the being you so have pactrices more thats crazy you all firend you schold given it hole and stikll to other
Reply:dont confront friend "b" since the info wasnt recieved by you and instead ask friend "c" if she would like to practice with you away from practice or maybe all 4 of you can practice together.
Reply:This reminds me of the time when I was on a soccer team with my 3 best friends. It was pretty bad since they didn't really get along with each other. But we worked it out and practiced a lot. Try working with C alone on her sports skills. Invite her over to help you practice and maybe she'll catch on too. IM me if you need some more help! :)
Reply:Confront her! Don't worry about seeming like the gossipy nosey one. Everyone is gossipy and nosey. You'll be the strong one who is willing to stand up for things you feel strong about! Empower yourself!
Friend Issues?
ask friend b why she would say something to friend c. If all of you guys are close friends, she shouldnt be saying anything about friend c. It shouldnt matter if your good at a game or not. You should ask your friend if she would rather be with a good player that she hated or that hated her, or would she rather be with a really close friend and have her not be so good. I would rather pick the be with a close friend thats not very good. Hope I helped :)
Reply:you schold worry about it are guys firends so dose matter what c beause wa a bad player not very one does in the being you so have pactrices more thats crazy you all firend you schold given it hole and stikll to other
Reply:dont confront friend "b" since the info wasnt recieved by you and instead ask friend "c" if she would like to practice with you away from practice or maybe all 4 of you can practice together.
Reply:This reminds me of the time when I was on a soccer team with my 3 best friends. It was pretty bad since they didn't really get along with each other. But we worked it out and practiced a lot. Try working with C alone on her sports skills. Invite her over to help you practice and maybe she'll catch on too. IM me if you need some more help! :)
Reply:Confront her! Don't worry about seeming like the gossipy nosey one. Everyone is gossipy and nosey. You'll be the strong one who is willing to stand up for things you feel strong about! Empower yourself!
My ex- friend keeps trying to fight with me!?
I was really good friends with this girl at school, let callher friend A. She's been treating me and my BEST FRIEND really mean. We'll call her friend B. So, I was just going on with my business and had my AIM logged on but I wasn't really paying attention to it. Friend A sent me an IM that said "I don't want to talk to you and neither does*****" we'll call ****** friend C. *I don't like to put my friends names on here cause I don't want some stalker to kill them.* So I said what most people was and I said "Why I didn't do anything to you or friend C" and her reply was "because I don't think you are a good friend and I don't want to be part of this. You are going to do something that who knows what?! You are going to get us in SOO much trouble later on in life." So, I went on to my life. But my mom thinks that friend A is going 2 get us and herself in trouble.!!
Please don't report me!
~thanks, Momo!~
My ex- friend keeps trying to fight with me!?
LOL ha ha
Reply:I'm lost trying to read this...
Anyway, if people are saying that crap to you, they're idiots and you don't need them or their phony fair-weather friendship. Forget about them and make other friends.
Please don't report me!
~thanks, Momo!~
My ex- friend keeps trying to fight with me!?
LOL ha ha
Reply:I'm lost trying to read this...
Anyway, if people are saying that crap to you, they're idiots and you don't need them or their phony fair-weather friendship. Forget about them and make other friends.
Girl Friend and Best Friend Problems (version2.0)?
So basically Almost 8 months ago Friend A dated girlfriend A and i did not last long. Afterwards Friend B dated Girlfriend A and that lasted much longer and was "much more serious" . 6 months later im dating Girldfriend A (still are) and i love her and don't plan to break up. Within all this Friend B is upset with the fact that im dating Girlfriend A and on top of that he hates her. Friend B claims that Friend A and Friend C think I might cause myself to be excluded from our friendship. In my opinion i dont think I will be excluded from Friend A and C i think Friend B is going to exclude me from our friendship...Please Give me your opinion...
Girl Friend and Best Friend Problems (version2.0)?
Ok this isnt an answer but just a little more info. I happen to know these 4 ppl and also happen to know that Friend B Ok'd it for the poster to date Girl A.
Reply:bow chika bow wow Report It
Reply:You screwed up by dating your friend's ex... You can't help but love her. Talk to your friend and tell him you are sorry for breaking that cardinal rule and you don't want to ruin your friendship. You guys are going to have to get along if you want to stay friends. You may have to choose your girl over your friends. Personally, I always stick with the old saying 'bros before hoes.' But that's just me. Good luck.
Reply:You should not have hstarted dating hoe A...I mean girlfriend A. You owe it to your friend. have you never heard of Bros before hoes
Reply:why cant A, B and C just put their diferences aside?
Reply:first off, im a girl %26amp; i wouldn't be jumping from one guy to the next, %26amp; the next...that shows what me %26amp; my friends call it a "circle bouncer" meaning: you would bounce to everyone in the circle of friends!
But i understand that you like this girl, but you know the consequences of dating your friends ex-gf...you're are either gonna have to accept friend B (if friend A or C decides to as well) not to be your friend(s)...which would be ridiculous, this shouldn't let friends not be friends, but unfortunately, S**T like this happens.
or
you can talk to friend B %26amp; explain to him everything that you want to let him know, %26amp; add in there he to had done the same thing to friend A, regardless that it didnt work out between the 2...he still dated his friends ex-gf, so he shouldn't get mad at you for doing the same thing he did to friend A.
Reply:Too confusing rewrite already.....
Reply:What- are you playing musical friends?
You need to expand your circle of aquaintances and
stop dating each other's 'friends'!
It's a sure way to contaminate friendships.
Girl Friend and Best Friend Problems (version2.0)?
Ok this isnt an answer but just a little more info. I happen to know these 4 ppl and also happen to know that Friend B Ok'd it for the poster to date Girl A.
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Reply:You screwed up by dating your friend's ex... You can't help but love her. Talk to your friend and tell him you are sorry for breaking that cardinal rule and you don't want to ruin your friendship. You guys are going to have to get along if you want to stay friends. You may have to choose your girl over your friends. Personally, I always stick with the old saying 'bros before hoes.' But that's just me. Good luck.
Reply:You should not have hstarted dating hoe A...I mean girlfriend A. You owe it to your friend. have you never heard of Bros before hoes
Reply:why cant A, B and C just put their diferences aside?
Reply:first off, im a girl %26amp; i wouldn't be jumping from one guy to the next, %26amp; the next...that shows what me %26amp; my friends call it a "circle bouncer" meaning: you would bounce to everyone in the circle of friends!
But i understand that you like this girl, but you know the consequences of dating your friends ex-gf...you're are either gonna have to accept friend B (if friend A or C decides to as well) not to be your friend(s)...which would be ridiculous, this shouldn't let friends not be friends, but unfortunately, S**T like this happens.
or
you can talk to friend B %26amp; explain to him everything that you want to let him know, %26amp; add in there he to had done the same thing to friend A, regardless that it didnt work out between the 2...he still dated his friends ex-gf, so he shouldn't get mad at you for doing the same thing he did to friend A.
Reply:Too confusing rewrite already.....
Reply:What- are you playing musical friends?
You need to expand your circle of aquaintances and
stop dating each other's 'friends'!
It's a sure way to contaminate friendships.
I have two friend poblems. Firstly, 3 of my friends are being rude (each one in her own way), and secondly....
1. Three of my friends are being kinda rude. Friend A is making mean comments such as "How are you going to have a birthday party at your house? It's PUNY!" and "You're such a party pooper." Friend B is always bragging or just being plain rude. When she gets a good grade or is the first to finish her work, she'll say things like, "I got an A+! What did you get (yea, she asks other ppl their grades)?" and "Oh, well, I finished reading the book before time was called!" Finally, Friend C is also bragging, but in a different sort of way. When she is th eonly one to get a perfect score she'll go around saying "Yes! Yes! Yes!" forever! It gets so annoying! But you know, I can't really end the friendship with her because are moms are really good friends, do everything together, and my mom even thinks Friend C is a "perfect little angel who will prove worthy in many situations".
2. Also, Friend C tries to be cool. Fine, it's so awkward when she makes a joke that isn't funny, or that is mean!
I have two friend poblems. Firstly, 3 of my friends are being rude (each one in her own way), and secondly....
1) Friend A doesn't seem to be much of a friend if she's constantly making comments like that. Unless there's some redeeming thing about her that makes you want to be friends with her, I'd say ditch her.
Friend B seems to be trying to make up for some sort of insecurity in herself. Trying to make herself feel better than everyone else, make herself feel important and good. This could just be something she needs to work out. you could tell her how annoying it is when she does stuff like that. Be open and honest and if she can't take it, she can't take it. She'll probably think you're jealous or something, but you'll know the truth.
Friend C - doesn't sound too bad... almost tolerable. You could also talk to her, esp. about her jokes that are mean or isn't funny. Other than that, I'm sure that she could be tolerated.
Hope this helps.
cvs
2. Also, Friend C tries to be cool. Fine, it's so awkward when she makes a joke that isn't funny, or that is mean!
I have two friend poblems. Firstly, 3 of my friends are being rude (each one in her own way), and secondly....
1) Friend A doesn't seem to be much of a friend if she's constantly making comments like that. Unless there's some redeeming thing about her that makes you want to be friends with her, I'd say ditch her.
Friend B seems to be trying to make up for some sort of insecurity in herself. Trying to make herself feel better than everyone else, make herself feel important and good. This could just be something she needs to work out. you could tell her how annoying it is when she does stuff like that. Be open and honest and if she can't take it, she can't take it. She'll probably think you're jealous or something, but you'll know the truth.
Friend C - doesn't sound too bad... almost tolerable. You could also talk to her, esp. about her jokes that are mean or isn't funny. Other than that, I'm sure that she could be tolerated.
Hope this helps.
cvs
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