I am falling for my best guy friend and I don't know what to do b/c i love my bf too. what should i do?

Who says that you can only love one person romantically at a time. That being said that doesn't mean that you should try as culturally most people would not accept that answer nor would it probably be accepted by these two guys. If you want to stay with your boyfriend you should decide what it is that your are getting from this other guy that you aren't getting from him and talk to him about your needs, if on the other hand you feel this other guy has more that you want you should at least be honest with your boyfriend about the situation. You may want to be sure though that the other guy actually feels the same way first.

I am falling for my best guy friend and I don't know what to do b/c i love my bf too. what should i do?
You should go for the guy you love more. Follow your heart.
Reply:Playing with fire will hurt not only u but others too
Reply:Spend some time alone for you to be able to sort your feelings more clearly. Is it really love or just infatuation you feel for either guy? Its possible that you are falling for your best guy friend because you are spending more time with him and you become very comfortable with one another. You have to take into consideration that once you engage yourself in an intimate relationship with your best guy friend - there's a risk your friendship will be damaged. As for your boyfriend - see yourself without him. You may love him but is it really that deep or is your foundation stronger with your best friend than with your boyfriend? Bottom line is you have to choose.





For your best guy friend - is it the friendship or would you rather take your relationship in a deeper stage?


For your boyfriend - do you see your relationship for keeps or would you be able to stand living without him?





What's important is you are true to yourself and to the 2 guys. It would be unfair to be committed to 2 guys who both have feelings. Look at the pros and cons if you take your relationship with your best friend intimately. Does your best friend share the same feeling? Just be honest with your boyfriend because he deserves to know the truth.
Reply:stick with the one you like more. if you go for your friend though i think your bf might get mad...
Reply:You cannot choose to have two bf at one time. It is not fair to either one of them. Remember that you are having this relationship because you are preparing to spend the rest of your life with this person. Think of the pros and cons of each person; which one loves you more, which one promises you a better future and others. You have to make a choice.

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