I want to dump my girlfriend - should I ...a) text, b) fax or c) accuse her of sleeping with a friend?

I have met and bagged someone else. I don't feel up to hearing the "you're a rat" speech if i come clean.... so I was hoping for some advice on how to go about htis the adult way but make it easier on me all round.





Any comments from serious people willing to help will be appreciated. I just want a quiet life really not all this emotional tears, guilt and carrying on. Cheers.

I want to dump my girlfriend - should I ...a) text, b) fax or c) accuse her of sleeping with a friend?
LMFAO....


well first send her a text in which you tell her to check her fax where she will find a letter accusing her of sleeping with a friend..Problem Solved!-all ways





LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Call her and break up with her and give her the whole "it's not you, it's me". a couple of minutes into her tirade sign off and change your phone number.
Reply:do it face to face.


she'll appreciate it thinking you actually have the courage to face her,


if you do it texting/fax she'll just see you even lower.








cant you even call her at least!
Reply:d
Reply:definatly C
Reply:Honesty is the BEST policy : Say whatever you have to say, to her face and get it over with.


Or else, your 'ditch-worthy' girlfriend might become so spiteful and revengeful, that she might even see to it that your new-found lover dumps you !


...'Do unto others as you would be done by' - old Bible saying !
Reply:Wow! What a lucky girl. I would send her a congratulations card, she is going to be so much better off without you.
Reply:You have been rat, and you need to deal with that - you need to tell your g/f face to face that you have met somebody else and you want to break up with her!! Im sorry but none of the excuses you came up with are actually good enough!!


Hope your new girl is worth breaking your relationship up for!
Reply:Doesn't really matter how you do it, she'll be well shot of you either way, what a charmer !
Reply:Be a man, break up with her in person. You don't have to tell her that you "bagged" someone else, but you also don't have to lie. Just be brief and specific. She's probably going to be upset and confused, so do it quickly.
Reply:Your a dirty rat!





Face to face you coward
Reply:get a doll like children do. u don't need a woman just so u can abuse her.
Reply:you have to face up to it i'm affraid,it's part of the splitting up process.good luck,you'll need it.
Reply:text is an easier method.





but seriously, YOU'RE A JERK!
Reply:If you want to be an "adult" about it then lie your *** off because that's what most adults would do.





If you want to be true to yourself...be honest about it.


Spare her the details and just tell her the truth.





If you lie to her you're lieung to yourself.....


"The truth shall set you free"
Reply:She has the right to know exactly what happened to her face. My mate was dumped by text a while ago and she was devastated (in bits for months).





Tell her that you've met someone else and that you are a rat. She deserves to know the truth. It will be less painful for her in the long run.





If you have (or had) any feelings for her then tell her the truth.
Reply:A letter. And try thinking of someone other than yourself once in a while. Spoilt little boy.
Reply:As a female who has been on the receiving end you are a rat if you use any of those methods. If you have any respect for your current gf you would tell her face to face and you would tell the truth. As you won't do that, tell her that your heart is not in the relationship anymore (as it clearly isn't).


A few years ago my ex met someone else but told me by text that he just wanted to be single. I am not stupid and instinctively knew that this wasnt true. Especially as he announced he was seeing someone new less than 3 weeks later. Women are NOT stupid!


At least have the decency to speak to her by phone if you really cant do the face to face thing. How would you like to receive a text or a fax saying it was over if you really cared for someone??
Reply:Well, I certainly wouldn't call you a rat. The words I happen to be thinking of would probably get me kicked off of Yahoo.





Be a man. Tell her face to face, and be honest.





She's going to find out the truth. Trust me on that one.





And you think getting cussed out sucks? Wait till she finds out you're a coward AND a liar.
Reply:don't be such a pig!! face it you are a rat, you don't need anyone to tell you that.
Reply:id go for a (c) (a) combo
Reply:Honestly she'd appreciate you telling her by either phone or to her face the EXACT reason you're breaking up with her...even if its that shes ugly, bad in bed, and that you bagged her best friend...trust...any other way shes gonna be a clinger...yeah you know what im talkin about....
Reply:You're not a rat..you're a snake..


Grow a spine..





Wimp..i feel sorry for the poor sap who fell for you this time..
Reply:I feel sorry for you. You have such a sad attitude toward women. I'm guessing its due to your immaturity. In all honesty break up with her however you want. This is nothing but a game to you anyway. She will be much better off without you in her life and might be fortunate and meet a real man in the future.





And then please leave the rest of the female human race alone until you have matured into a man and not the silly boy you parade on this page.
Reply:Tell her that your are The Master and that you are leaving her for her own good because you are just really evil, and anyway you have to leave the earth because The Doctor is after you. Then laugh insanely for 5 long minutes and let some saliva dribble down your face.
Reply:I think you should be a MAN.


You want to dump her have some pride and tell her face to face. Let her down gently.


Say you have been thinking and you dont think it is working out for yourslef and you think its best to split.


But dont take the Cowards way out and text her or accuse her of something she never done or fax her thats down right cruel.


She will have a lot more respect for you if you dump her face to face and you are showing that you are being Adult about it doing it like that.


There is no easy way to dump someone but try to be honest and you will feel better.


Good Luck
Reply:Fax, Text , Email , write her a letter,.. and phone her too she might then - take the hint...
Reply:I would use all of the above; Text and fax her accusing her of sleeping with a friend...no mess and you can walk away without any guilt...
Reply:c
Reply:make sure you have goodbye sex ... then tell her face to face!
Reply:You need to elaborate on how long you have been with your girlfriend for?