My best friend in the whole world never hangs out with me b/c of her boyfriend do i drop her as a friend?

I feel so deserted. we have been friends for 10 years. and she is one of the 3 ppl cloestest to me and helped me thorugh a really hard time. I feel like she dosnt care anymore. I dont want to lose her but I feel like i am. In the past 3 weeks we have hung out once. i miss out times together

My best friend in the whole world never hangs out with me b/c of her boyfriend do i drop her as a friend?
I believe there should be a balance between friends and bfs and if she was your bff in the whole world she wouldnt ditch you for her guy! you always need your friends no matter what
Reply:Friends doesn't necessarily mean you spend all your time together all through your lives. WHen the shoe is on the other foot, you'll see that there isn't that much time to spend with your friends.


I would make the effort and get her and the boyfriend out, spend time with both of them, who knows maybe he is a really nice guy.


Just because you're not spending all your time together doesn't mean she does not care, but there are some times in life when you don't spend all that time together, and this is one of them. You can let it break your friendship, or you can show that you understand, and when the boyfriend has gone that you are still there, and that your friendship isn't reliant on all her time.
Reply:Dont drop her as a friend. Trust me. My ex best friend of 13 years did that to me when i got a bf 3 years ago. I dont want to be mean to you, but as people growup, it's ok not to spend as much time with eachother. She has a new bf and she's excited about it, but that doesnt mean she doesnt like you anymore. just give her some time and she'll start to miss you, just as much as you miss her. dont drop her as a friend. when my ex friend did that to me, it hurt alot. i realized that she felt a bit neglected but, seriously grow up. if you had a bf you would be doing the same thing.
Reply:I would talk her to her and have a heart to heart. If she responds coldly to your feelings and makes no effort to spend more time on the friendship, I think you do need to put some more space there and find some new friends. It's not uncommon to drift from people you've known for 10 years or so. It's sad, but people sometimes grow apart.
Reply:talk 2 her tell her how you feel and make plans AHEAD so she can tell her bf that she's busy then. Really, if she's your bff tell her how you feel. And DON"T drop her as your friend or bff! BEST OF LUCK!!!!


-ALWAYS %26lt;3 u'r bff-


( %26lt;3 is a heart=love!)
Reply:i think its best u tell her how you feel.


i mean she is so post to be a good friend.


n like how lonng had she known dat guy compare to you.


u should talk really.


it will help.
Reply:ok......love is very important, but your gonna have boyz comming in and out of her life! FRIENDS are very imortant! help her find some time for just you to! dont worrie it will work out trust me! been there done that!
Reply:just tell her how you feel. if shes really your bestest friend in the whole world she'll understand...if not dont 'drop' her as a friend just give it some time and eventually she'll probably start spending more time with you
Reply:Nope, it could be her boyfrieds fault, and she could just be overwhelmed w/ shcool/work. its not her fault, and u shouldnt risk a good friend just because they dont hang out w/ u as much as youd like them 2
Reply:no, but tell her how you feel, she's probably just so into this bf/gf deal that she spaced, she'll probably feel bad and make more time in her schedule for you and other friends