If you had a crush on a friend would they think your weird or would they understand b/c they feel the same way

If you had a crush on someone and you had your friend tell them that you have a crush on them then you have your friend ask them out for you but they don't say anything or they say no but then you write a few letters to them tellling them how you feel about them would they think your weird or do they understand and feel the same way about you too?

If you had a crush on a friend would they think your weird or would they understand b/c they feel the same way
Wow, I had a best friend who never said anything. It took us 20 years to finally open up to one another. Don't wait. Risk rejection. The very worst is that you remain friends, Friends are the next best thing to true love. Perhaps they are our only relation to true love. Don't feel put down if they don't feel the same way (romantically) just be pleased that you still have a best friend to turn to.


But, what if, you take the chance after all, you find out that they feel the same.


It is worth the risk. I have lived it. And, no matter the out come, I am happier to have expressed my deep and abiding love for my friend. It brought us closer.


Trust your heart, and always be honest when you express what is in your heart.


Your beloved may not have the same feelings, but you will have no secrets between you, That is true friendship.
Reply:Well, for one thing, there is no definiteness as to them feeling the same way that you do. Plus, what I don't understand at all is why you are so determined not to do a more direct approach: Though it may take a bit of courage on your part, I urge you to do just that, if it is you that your question is actually about. As for this whole thing about crushes and the nature of them, for the most part crushes are fleeting fancies, sort of borderline infatuations that often are unrequited and one-sided in nature.





Just keep in mind that if you really want something or someone, you have to grab the bull by the horns and go after it yourself. No one thinks very highly of someone fearful and/or timid, who has to have a friend ask him or her out.





In life, you will find as you get older that you often have little to lose by taking chances and everything to gain. GET IT?
Reply:I also see your situation.


If they say no it usually means they are to shy to say yes or they just want to be friends. When a person says nothing it usually means shock ( I've been in that position ) If they flat out say no it means no so if I were you i would walk up to him/her (WHEN THEY'RE ALONE) and ask them out. When a friend approaches the person you like , the person you like tends to be shy. So try asking him out in private if he says no just take it to heart and you'll have to learn that he's just not the one.
Reply:I can see your situation. I am guessing that this is talking about you?? well, if they said No, or didn't answer that probably means that they dont like you as a girlfriend(or boyfriend). So, i wouldn't reccomend sending him(or her) letters. That will make it seem obsessive, and show that you don't have alot of self-confidence. I think the two of you are better off as friends...good friends!
Reply:You shouldent write to them thats just being shy go up and talk to them because it will make yourself more confident and normal around them. And its normal from crushes on friends because you know them alot more than you know other people
Reply:tell them that i might just like them and if they like you then thats great but if they think ur weird, then they arent a real friend anyway. ... P-:
Reply:ur screwed... the guy probably thinks ur scared of him and that leads to him getting u into a dark alley and u know what else. try just talking to him and act like nothings happened....
Reply:they probably would rather hear it from you
Reply:tell them they might have the same feeling bout u....u never know
Reply:They would not call you crazy or think its weird. It's very common at certain stages of a persons life.





Donny Osmond described it perfectly in the lyrics to his song "Puppy Love" aka a crush.





And they called it puppy love


Oh, I guess they'll never know


How a young heart really feels


and why I love him/her so.





And they called it puppy love,


just because we're in our teens


Tell them all, please


tell them it isn't fair


To take away my only dream





I cry each night my tears for him/her


my tears are all in vain


I'll hope and I'll pray


that maybe someday you'll be right in my arms once again.





Someone help me,


help me, help me please


Is the answer up above


How can I, Oh


how can I tell them


this is not a puppy love.





"as we grow up we will go through cycles of having a crush on someone. liking someone a lot. Infatuation. becoming fond of someone. getting very interested about someone. going through the cycle of Puppy Love as well.





None of those are equal with LOVE, and all those stages come and go. it would be nice to look at detailed descriptions of those at the following sites.





Infatuation


http://www.sosuave.com/articles/infatuat...


Crushes


http://kidshealth.org/kid/feeling/though...