Monday, July 27, 2009

My friend just had a c-section, what can I do for her?

When she gets home, bring her some home-cooked meals that she can eat now or freeze for later use. Also offer to do any wash, cleaning that she might need done.

My friend just had a c-section, what can I do for her?
--Cook for her


--Does she have a crock pot? Get some easy food that she can dump and go.


-- Watch the baby for a few hours to let her sleep and/or shower


-- Offer to watch the baby when she goes to her doctor's appointment


-- Offer to do shopping for her if needed
Reply:GIT....her some Chocolate.... some Real Good and Expensive.. KIND.... As she will Enjoy IT!





Thanks, RR
Reply:It's very sweet of you to want to help your friend. If she has other kids, offer to babysit a little.





Vacuuming, sweeping and lifting are things she won't be ale to do for a while. Offering to help with those would be great!





I had 3 c-sections and those we the things I needed real help with.
Reply:just be there for her. talk to her and reassure her that you will be there any time she desires. make her home comfortable and prepare some nice meals for her. maybe stay over her place and help her with baby. make her tea and get her some nice munchies.
Reply:I myself had a c-section almost 1 month ago and have a beautiful daughter to show for it. When i got home I was on my own. Watch the baby for a few hours and let her sleep, offer to help with cooking and/or house work. Since she wont be able to drive for about 3 weeks offer to take her to dr app or even just for a drive to get out of the house. Any little thing will help, trust me. I wish i had someone to help me when i got home. The first week at home is going to be the hardest. But things will settle back in to place. Good luck and God bless
Reply:Help with general house work, she will not be able to hang out the washing, vacuum etc also just ask her what she would find helpful and make sure that you are not imposing. All if you can ask a nurse coz I think from memory she should not be doing alot for about 6weeks.





Had one myself, not a good feeling for a week or so.





What a thoughful friend you must be.

rose

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