Friend trouble this is getting serious?? plz?

I have know my c friend(competitive friend) for a few years now and we have been best friends but every day she does something that gets on my nerves, like says retard or no dur sarcastically, or pretends like something i say is dumb just because she is hanging around some popular girls that she says she doesnt like but sees what they say about her other friends. anyway my good friend: i met her like 6 months ago but my c friend and one of my other BEST BEST friends dont like her bcuz she hits and pokes me alot but shes just plain around!?? help! if i hang out with my good friend my BEST BEST friend will wonder why and get kinda mad bcuz im hanging around someone like her!? but if i mostly hang around my best but c friend, i will have to live with her wierd personality ??? there are no other best frineds i have at my school? wut should i do? also im only in 7 th grade


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Friend trouble this is getting serious?? plz?
you can hang out with as many people as you want and have as many friends as you want. any supposed "friend" should give you that freedom. and if someone is treating you like that, maybe she is joking with or maybe not, hard to tell, but if you dont want her to tell her so. stick up for yourself. if she gets mad let her be mad. im in 9th grade, and let me tell you, get some more confidence in yourself or youll be eaten alive in high school. confidence also attracts people to you. not just guys. you can also just strike up a conversation with people you sit by in class or something. dont be so shy, dont let people push you around.
Reply:Hm...make new friends. There are lots of girls out there in your school.
Reply:Do what you feel is best, thats the greatest part of life making your own choices that affects your future. Weigh your options, and see which ones you want to take. Also consider talking to your friends, you will be surprised some of them don't know what they are saying to you.
Reply:it's sounds like your c friend has moved on. She's clearly more interested in impressing the popular girls. It's a harsh reality...it's happened to me (and everyone else i know). You need to move on...Why can't you invite your best best friend and your good friend out to the movies together, or for dinner? Even if they don't like each other, they at least should like you enough to hang out. Or you can just hang out with your best best friend and your good friend seperately. And if your best best friend has a problem with that, then you should just tell her that she's your best best friend and always will be your best best friend, but you have fun hanging out with your good friend too.
Reply:wat school do u go to.
Reply:sounds like you got enough friends not to worry about (c).
Reply:follow ur heart
Reply:wow ok... umm i really dont get it..


uhh i guess the same thing happened to me last year..my best friend didn't like the girl i was hanging out with because she wasn't 'cool' enough. whatever. people are tards, and if she doesn't like who you hang out with, then don't even bother being friends with her. im 8th now, and i havent talked to my ex best friend since
Reply:Don't let others pick your friends. I know it is hard in grade 7 but as you grow you will soon realize that true friends could not care less who else you like or dislike.


If it causing this much concern, I would talk to my negative friends about why you DO like this girl and why you think she should have a chance.


If your friends have problems with her, let them, but stay out of it. If they stop hanging out with you because you are this other girls friend, you don't need them as friends to begin with.
Reply:I am in seventh grade.





Either hang out with them at different times or get your other friends to like c friend.
Reply:ok 1st. u can have more then one friend u can be friends with people who arent friends with eachother they can realize that ... u can be friends with who u want to...dont feel forced not to be friends with some1 just because ur other friends dont like her.... and for ur other friend that is annoyin u tell her the truth and if she is ur true friend she will listen!!!
Reply:that made no sense. come on, im 13 (around your age) and i know how to type a lot better than you.
Reply:Wow! You really are in a sticky situation. Here's my advice.Choose who you want to choose. don't do it for popularity. Sometimes you have to let go of some friends like a flower has to let go of some petals. If you don't feel comfortable being around one of your friends maybe they aren't your real friend.





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