I've problems with my bestfriend and I need to talk to someone so I can c if she respects&loves me as a friend

I am a 24 years old girl we we have been friends for 14 years now ..I just feel that she accepts me as a friend bcs she cant find anyone else but me...and latly we fight aloooot together...i feel that she doesnt care about me,she never asks about me even if iam sick..she once saw an old friend of hers-and we were hanging out together-she was soo happy to see her and totly forgot about me and she told her Iwas never happy as iam happy now :( and when i call her to tell her that iam coming to her house to visit her so we can stay together for a little bit...she goes out haning with other ppl and when I went and I didnt find her ..when I talked to her she told me i totly forgot that u r coming :S more that one time..and when I talk to her and tell her that those things upsets me..she says ..oh sorry I didnt know that those things upsets u...and she doesnt stop,she keep doing it.I love her so much..now I cant go out with her like b4 or even chat on the phone!!! so what do u think?!!

I've problems with my bestfriend and I need to talk to someone so I can c if she respects%26amp;loves me as a friend
I know EXACTLY how you feel. It seems with me that all my friends are just my friend because they don't have anyone else, and when they have someone else they leave me out. Me being insecure I just try to work with it how it is. Have you tried talking to her. I know it will probably be hard, but maybe if your friend understands she will be more considerate of you.
Reply:IGNORE HER FOR A WHILE DON'T EXCEPT HER CALLS OR ANYTHING SHE'S USING FOR WHEN OTHERS DON'T WANT TO BE BOTHERED FIND YOU SOME NEW FRIENDS. AND LEAVE HER ALONE SHES JUST DRAMA A HANDFUL OF TROUBLE SO GIVE HER THE COLD SHOULDER FOR ABOUT A WEEK JUST IGNORE HER.
Reply:Accept and love her for who she is, faults and all or find a new best friend. I had to recently, I understand.
Reply:let her no how much she is hurting u by doing stuff w/ out her %26amp; going out w/ friends that r of hers but dont bring her or tell her let her find out from one of them ...%26amp; wen u r w/ her freinds have a great time %26amp; make sure they do 2.also let her no that u rnt dependent on her. itll iether hit her that she needs u or shell move on if she moves on then u guys dont nneed 2 be friends anymore...but if she trys 2 fix it make sure taht b4 u except her bac u guys sit down %26amp; talk about everything that bothers each other about the other
Reply:IF this were my biggest problem in life, I'd be happy. Sit down with her and explain your feelings. you'll know in time if she's a true friend.